Category Musings

WHAT IF THERE WAS NO SOCIAL MEDIA

  What would you do if you actually needed someone to know something?    At work, nobody hints. You don’t drop a passive-aggressive line in a message and hope someone reads between the lines. You just say the thing. The…

Notes from Bali, on Women

  I thought manipulation was an unhealthy masculine energy.   Strategic, calculated, moving pieces around a board. It seemed to fit. Masculine energy operates through action and outcome. It shapes circumstances. So manipulation, with all its orchestration, felt like it…

2026 in the Island of the Gods

  Back in the Island of the Gods.   The island that always seem to connect the dots…   in dance music, beach, nature, food, art, culture, and vibe!🩵   __________________________________________________________________________________ Nature, music, life, and spirit find their way into…

Sketching in El Nido

  A snapshot from a session at one of my favorite coffee spots in El Nido. I go there for the captivating view and for a Filipino breakfast that’s actually worth it, without me having to touch the kitchen. I…

Come Back to Now

The finale of the Snake Year was personally compelling. The universe has its own astounding timing. And frequency is real, in the most tangible, physical sense: something I witnessed in real life, with my own eyes, in an actual moment,…

“Sweet, Sweet Fantasy, Baby”

While doodling my unicorn again, I found myself thinking about fantasy. Not as magic, a pause button. Comfortable. And, at times, dangerous. Fantasy isn’t always harmless. It becomes a problem when it replaces action. Fantasy gives the mind what reality hasn’t…